Heâ€™s Just Not That Into Youâ€”based on a popular episode of Sex and the Cityâ€”is tough love advice for otherwise smart women on how to tell when a guy just doesnâ€™t like them enough, so they can stop wasting time making excuses for a dead-end relationship. Itâ€™s the best relationship advice youâ€™ll ever receive.For ages, women have come together over coffee, cocktails, or late-night phone chats to analyze the puzzling behavior of men. Heâ€™s afraid to get hurt again.Maybe he doesnâ€™t want to ruin the friendship.Maybe heâ€™s intimidated by me.He just got out of a relationship.Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo are here to say thatâ€”despite good intentionsâ€”youâ€™re wasting your time. Men are not complicated, although theyâ€™d like you to think they are. And there are no mixed messages. The truth may be, Heâ€™s just not that into you. Unfortunately, guys are too terrified to ever directly tell a woman, â€śYou're not the one.â€ť But their actions absolutely show how they feel. Reexamining familiar scenarios and classic mindsets that keep us in unsatisfying relationships, Behrendt and Tuccilloâ€™s wise and wry understanding of the sexes spares women hours of waiting by the phone, obsessing over the details with sympathetic girlfriends, and hoping his mixed messages really mean, â€śIâ€™m in love with you and want to be with you.â€ťHeâ€™s Just Not That Into You is provocative, hilarious, and, above all, intoxicatingly liberating. It deserves a place on every womanâ€™s night table. It knows youâ€™re a beautiful, smart, funny woman who deserves better. The next time you feel the need to start â€śfiguring him out,â€ť consider the glorious thought that maybe, Heâ€™s just not that into you. And then set yourself loose to go find the one who is.
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