It's a Boy! It's a Girl! Oh, those magical words! As you gazed into the angelic face of your new little son or daughter, a million dreams for his or her future danced 'round in your head. So why, 12 or 13 years later, do you find yourself throwing your hands up in despair in the middle of every conversation with your teenager? It could be because you're overlooking the most obvious and effective ways of reaching him or her.